A sacred pilgrimage of daring adventure, heading all ways, Home.

Nautilus Accelerator

FOLLOWING OUR OWN STAR

We each have to walk our own path, that we may step into our own place of power and purpose.  There are no right ways or only ways, but there are better and worse ways.  

Acceleration is the intention and requisite investment to shorten the path of Actualisation without compromising Essence or Alignment.

You will do all the work, do what you have never done, go where you have never gone, stand in this world in a way you only dreamed of, and a year from now all your current ideas of your potential will seem small to you.

If you are done turning the old circles, if you want to be free, if you want to reshape the relationship you have with yourself, if you want to accelerate your journey towards Awakening, Self-ownership and Self-leadership in every aspect of your life, come with me.

We are who we repeatedly Choose to be.

No need to bring anything with you. 
Your wounds and your dearest cares
are all the map and stars
you shall ever need
to chart your course,
and the shape love makes
when you hold it in your heart,
the only compass.
Know this: the Great Journey
will entrust to you new tools,
new duties, new Language,
and teach you
how to mend the nets,
and how to rig the sails,
of the ones you already have.

प्रार्थयामि यत् बोधौषधं भवतः सत्यज्ञानदानं प्रदातुम्

We all hear the Call.

Not everyone is Invited.

יהי רצון שרפואת הבינה תהיה לא לקחת ממך אלא לתת בך אותך כפי שהיא עבורי

The Invitation

Every true gift, is an invitation to the deeper gift.

This is an invitation to begin a new part of your journey.

What you are seeking has also been seeking you, but sometimes neither it nor you, were ready, yet. The path to true Actualisation is always circuitous; we must first become thoroughly and hopeless lost before we can long, deeply to find, and to be found.

The closer you leaned into the truth of who and what you are, the more you became prepared and ready to let go of the way you had been attempting to hold the conversation, the more ready you became to wait and allow everything to be as per its own season. And the season is here now.

We needed to accept that people and our gifts and our purpose, arrive together only when we can open ourselves to the Invitation, and allow ourselves to be guided through an initiation into the unfolding seasonality of how those three things meet and can only meet at this moment, accepting fully that it is something that will change and keep changing.

The Invitation is a progressive Unfolding. So are we; We are also a progressive unfolding, so are our gifts, so are all people, and so are all places and therefore, so is the Truth.

The invitation is to make the kind of progress on this journey worth all the discomfort and pain you have endured and more.

Everything is waiting for you.

MAY THE MEDICINE OF UNDERSTANDING BE NOT THE TAKING FROM BUT THE GIVING IN YOU AS IT IS FOR ME

Principles

Adhering to The Way.

Cadence

Cadence (or Steadiness) is the Essence of Stillness expressed as Movement (Action).

This is the principle of rhythm, entrainment.

This is the pendulum, the orbit, the tides and seasons.

By this reasoning, our exchange will follow a natural cadence.

Form & Flow

Nature teaches the wisdom of Form & Flow.

Form is the essence of structure nature demands to channel the potential of Flow, to leverage its vitality and generative properties while moderating its destructive chaotic aspects. 

Just like a river will change course when it must, our Form will, aside from the aspect of structure and channeling, also be subject to Flow, and will by definition, evolve over time.

This is the yin-yang of all of creation

Stance

Emotion is to do with motion, that is how we are ‘Moved’. Emotion is not something one should harbour, it is something that seeks to move through us, a call to Action or Expression.

The essence of Action and Expression without acting or expressing actively, is Stance.

Stance is the passive expression of Will. Will is what sets the rudder.

The stance we will adopt is of self-leadership and love over fear.

Reason, is the river which leads back to the source
and fills the entire ocean of meaning.

GADEWCH I FEDDYGINIAETH Y DEALL EICH ARWAIN ADREF I'CH GWIR HUNANWYBODAETH

Just to be Clear

My own deepest wish was to be Well, truly well. When I began I was not sure what that meant. I have spent the last six years living my life as a divorcee, a husband, a father, a philosopher and leader devoted to nothing else.  The journey took much and gave me everything.

What ‘wellness’ came to mean, the fullness of that desire that unfolded was Connection, Alignment, Authenticity, Vitality, Self-Love, Integrity and Purpose. The more sincerely I pursued these outcomes, the more I came to understand that wellness implied also, by definition, Discernment, Self-Permission, Stillness and a formidable Will.

The clearer I got, the more my own life Purpose, and my sense of Meaning emerged. 

My true desire, what fulfils me is bringing my own light my own genius and craft to the project of helping as many as I can, step into the inheritance of their own.  I do this work with individuals and in a wider arena. We all have halos, and when they shine, we shine. We all have a genius, the privilege and duty of a human life is to explore and cultivate our genius and connect with our purpose in this voyage.

When we are clear on our purpose and clear in our Understanding of our place in this world, our life goes from being an arduous journey in exile, to a epic pilgrimage of daring adventure and great Meaning

MY FOUR STANCES (in the necessary spirit of unsolicited Challenge).

ENCOURAGEMENT

Reminding you of your power, your worth. 

If Leadership does not look like Love, it is not real Leadership.

DISCERNMENT

Includes diagnosis, analysis and prognosis.
 
Cutting Insight, Illuminating Outcomes.
 
Kindness is not always the greater kindness.

DIRECTION

Includes consulting & solutioning.
 
Guiding Pace and Aim, Creating Paths.

INSTRUCTION

Includes explanation & transmission
 
Igniting Curiosity, Transferring Wisdom.

About unsolicited Challenge

None of these abilities in me become gifts to you, without unsolicited challenge. 

The only cure for apathy is discomfort.

a sacred pilgrimage of daring adventure

MAY THE MEDICINE OF UNDERSTANDING BE NOT THE TAKING FROM BUT THE GIVING IN YOU AS IT IS FOR ME

The Agreement

TERMS

This Agreement for me to guide the Applicant (you/your), is conditional to a sacred container being established based on these mutual understandings:

  1. That you want to grow and Actualise and accept the necessary challenges and impacts to your life.
  2. That you are responsible for your own emotions and resilience.
  3. That you understand Consent.
  4. Acceleration requires the specific 'affecting' of pace and vector.
  5. Unsolicited challenge is what arises when the one know knows
  6. In order to affect pace there needs to be efficiency of exchange. Anything less, and the resulting resistance causes too much friction. The friction arrests acceleration.
  7. In order to align with vector there needs to be regular assessment and regular correction. Any reluctance in responsiveness requires deceleration and reset. Such disruption is antithetical to acceleration. Any distortion of message will result in impaired guidance.
  8. Efficiency of acceleration requires fidelity of interface. Fidelity of interface is improved over time.
  9. Optimal Acceleration is determined by your openness to unsolicited challenge of your perspective, perceptions, beliefs, understanding and expectations.
  10. Distortions of message indicate a lack of trust, a lack of self-ownership or a lack of discernment.
  11. Trust is awarded to the measure of one’s own integrity and self-ownership.
  12. The appropriate establishment of this container is via agreement.
  13. Promises in their attempt to be without limit, are static and binding in the interests of providing the illusion of safety via control. Every promise of safety requires a compromise of freedom and an ultimate assault on the integrity.
  14. Agreements apply in the context of their limits and are thus adaptable and have terms, both in the sense of mutually agreed conditions and in the sense of validity in time. Agreements can co-evolve in step with the growth of discernment, agency and integrity.

ME

For my part as Guide (I/my), I pledge
 
  1. If I know something of value I will speak it. If I don’t know I will simply acknowledge that, or ask questions, or remain silent.
  2. If I am claiming meaningful understanding or attainment in something, constructive challenge is helpful to both. I commit to explaining or demonstrating the veracity, provided you have the patience and the courage to try and understand. Alternatively, you wont find me making claims about things I am not, or cannot do.
  3. If I am digging my heels in, it is because I believe in the cause on principle in Alignment with love.
  4. If I am mistaken, I commit to remaining amenable to appeal or correction, but I don’t count being emotionally triggered as a valid argument.
  5. My pointing out logical fallacies or cognitive biases inherent in any counter argument does not constitute argument on my part; it simply an insistence on a prudent standard of debate.
  6. As soon as I know better I will do better. We are all learning.

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YOU

Given that:
  1. Consent can only be asked of and given by an Adult.
  2. Adults walk but do not run. Any party in Consent may withdraw consent pursuant to a conversation with no further obligation.
  3. Overwhelm is a symptom of my failure to regulate the exchange of message and energy according to my Will.
  4. Will is developed by exercise. Not all exercise is necessarily comfortable.
  5. Strength is a decision. Kindness is not the greater kindness. Fear is not Danger. Pain is not Injury. Discomfort is not Loss. Surrender is not Passivity.
 
As the Applicant (I/my), I acknowledge:
  1. This agreement is made under the rubric of Consent.
  2. In every moment, I own my decision. I own my outcome. I own my reaction.
  3. The pace of my receiving of exchange will be determined by my discernment and my expression of my Will.
  4. Overwhelm is a symptom of my failure to regulate the exchange of message and energy according to my Will.

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CODA

The container will be a living, growing, evolving thing. This agreement is a living thing and will evolve as the learnings evolve; If the way is not seeking always better ways, it is not The Way.

باشد که داروی درک آن چیزی نباشد که از شما می گیرد، بلکه بخشیدن در شما آن گونه که برای من است باشد.

Definitions

The Key to better Understanding is better Language. 

Acceleration

Acceleration

The intention and requisite investment to shorten the path of Actualisation without compromising Essence or Alignment.

Actualisation

Actualisation

The dynamic process of bringing one's Essence into tangible reality, guided by Authenticity and Alignment. Making the the potential, actual, without compromising one's core nature or Integrity.

Alignment

Alignment

The degrees of congruence of inner Reality with outer Reality, and with the vector of Love over Fear.

Authenticity

Authenticity

The degree to which one is true to their own desire, in defiance of external influence, expressed as being.

Consent

Consent

The investment of Will that underwrites participation in a Container, where one assumes full ownership of their own investment, cost and outcome.

Discernment

Discernment

The degree to which Observation and Action reflect an accurate Perception and Understanding.
The ability to appreciate Essence.

Essence

Essence

The fundamental nature of what is, by which its uniqueness and also its relation to everything else, may be known.

Integrity

Integrity

The adherence to one's Essence, Authenticity, and Alignment in all circumstances upheld particularly in the face of adversity or resistance.

Acceleration

Acceleration

The intention and requisite investment to shorten the path of Actualisation without compromising Essence or Alignment.

Actualisation

Actualisation

The dynamic process of bringing one's Essence into tangible reality, guided by Authenticity and Alignment. Making the the potential, actual, without compromising one's core nature or Integrity.

Alignment

Alignment

The degrees of congruence of inner Reality with outer Reality, and with the vector of Love over Fear.

Authenticity

Authenticity

The degree to which one is true to their own desire, in defiance of external influence, expressed as being.

Consent

Consent

The investment of Will that underwrites participation in a Container, where one assumes full ownership of their own investment, cost and outcome.

Discernment

Discernment

The degree to which Observation and Action reflect an accurate Perception and Understanding.
The ability to appreciate Essence.

Essence

Essence

The fundamental nature of what is, by which its uniqueness and also its relation to everything else, may be known.

Integrity

Integrity

The adherence to one's Essence, Authenticity, and Alignment in all circumstances upheld particularly in the face of adversity or resistance.

We cannot visit worlds for which we do not have the language.

Further Questions

Serious applicants with further questions are invited to book time with me to discuss.

coda

Nautilus Accelerator is a product of Eyes Wide Open Life (eyeswideopenlife.org). Very simply, this is the answer to the question: “What would I want?”

Applications are by invitation, or by referral. Application is subject to discernment.

design

Copy, Art, Poetry, Logo Design, Engagement Model, Philosophy and Layout by Rocco Jarman.

purpose

All my work, my life, is in the service of Project Shaduf.

Power is the measure of energy you refuse to waste or give away in the pursuit of acceptance.

Application

Once you apply you will receive a booking link to schedule regular sessions, and a payment link to finalize the registration.

By Submitting this application to I confirm that:

  1. I have read and understood the all the relevant terms of the Agreement.
  2. I understand the Principles and Definitions.
  3. I want to grow and Actualise and accept the necessary challenges and impacts to my life.
  4. I understand Consent.
  5. In every moment I am responsible for my own emotions and resilience whereby I own my decision, I own my outcome and I own my reaction.
  6. Adults walk but do not run. If I decide to park or terminate the Agreement and the Container it defines, I will have a conversation.
  7. I understand that overwhelm is a symptom of my own failure to regulate the exchange of message and energy according to my Will. I am responsible for regulating the pace and communicating my needs effectively.

I am sincerely looking forward to this journey with you. 

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